{"id":15909,"date":"2021-01-20T14:17:35","date_gmt":"2021-01-20T14:17:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hamo-seme.com\/?page_id=15909"},"modified":"2021-02-21T20:34:04","modified_gmt":"2021-02-21T20:34:04","slug":"fate-ana","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/hamo-seme.com\/?page_id=15909","title":{"rendered":"Fat\u00e9 Ana"},"content":{"rendered":"

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FAT\u00c9 ANA(1874-1960)<\/h1>\n

Fat\u00e9, \u00e7evre ile ili\u015fkilerinde ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc ve uyumlu bir ailenin \u00e7ocu\u011fuydu. Babas\u0131 Kahraman beyaz tenli, uzun boylu ve yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131, annesi \u0130sme esmer, k\u0131sa boylu, \u00fcst\u00fc ba\u015f\u0131 biraz da\u011f\u0131n\u0131k, ama olduk\u00e7a zeki bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Y\u00fcz hatlar\u0131 ile babas\u0131na, teninin rengi ile annesine \u00e7ekmi\u015f olan Fat\u00e9, kendisinden \u00e7ok emin olmal\u0131 ki yetmi\u015f ya\u015flar\u0131ndayken bile yeri geldik\u00e7e gen\u00e7li\u011findeki g\u00fczelli\u011finden bahsediyordu. Onun sadece ihtiyarl\u0131k halini bilen Cemile ve di\u011fer torunlar\u0131 da \u00e7akt\u0131rmadan k\u0131s k\u0131s g\u00fclerler. \u2018\u2019An\u00e9 de gen\u00e7ken g\u00fczelmi\u015f!\u2019\u2019 s\u00f6zleri ile dalga ge\u00e7erlerdi.<\/p>\n

Fat\u00e9 S\u00f6be\u00e7imen\u2019in ilk bebeklerindendir. Babas\u0131 Kahraman, \u015eem\u00e9\u2019den gelin alm\u0131\u015f, bir gelin vermi\u015fti. Kahraman bu kez de Bes\u00e9\u2019nin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc Fate\u2019yi damad\u0131 Hasan\u2019\u0131n a\u011fabeyi Seydi\u2019ye veriyordu. Bu Seydi\u2019nin ikinci evlili\u011fiydi.<\/p>\n

Fat\u00e9 \u00e7ocuk denecek ya\u015fat gelin olmu\u015ftu. E\u015fi ile aras\u0131nda ya\u015f fark\u0131 vard\u0131. Ama iddial\u0131yd\u0131. Ablas\u0131ndan daha ak\u0131ll\u0131 ve al\u0131ml\u0131yd\u0131. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir haf\u0131zas\u0131 vard\u0131. Ancak daha evlili\u011finin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcnde bir kom\u015fusunun ihbar\u0131 \u00fczerine askere al\u0131nan kocas\u0131 Seydi\u2019den kendi deyimiyle \u2018\u2019tam d\u00f6rt sene d\u00f6rt ay \u2018\u2019 ayr\u0131 kald\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00fcre zarf\u0131nda \u00e7etin ceviz olan \u015eem\u00e9\u2019den epeyce \u00e7ekti. Fat\u00e9\u2019nin ad\u0131 yoktu. Kaynanas\u0131n\u0131 memnun etti\u011fi zaman \u201c\u00c7ena Keremani\u201d (Kahraman\u2019\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131) , edemedi\u011fi zaman \u201c\u00c7ena \u0130sm\u0131\u201d (\u0130sme\u2019nin k\u0131z\u0131) olurdu.<\/p>\n

Ama dayand\u0131, z\u0131tla\u015fmadan ki\u015fili\u011fini korumaya, kendini ezdirmemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Nas\u0131l olsa aralar\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck ya\u015f fark\u0131 vard\u0131. Kendisi geli\u015fip g\u00fc\u00e7leniyor, \u015eeme\u2019 giderek ya\u015flan\u0131yordu. G\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde \u015eeme\u2019 o tahttan inecek, kendisi oturacakt\u0131. Sabretmesini becerirse, gerisini do\u011fa ve zaman hallederdi.<\/p>\n

Fat\u00e9, \u00f6nce \u015eeme\u2019nin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, art\u0131 ve eksilerini izlemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015eeme\u2019 sab\u0131rs\u0131zd\u0131. \u00c7abuk \u00f6fkeleniyor, \u00e7evresindekileri k\u0131r\u0131yordu. Geleneksel olarak erkeklerin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fleri yapmay\u0131 seviyor, ev i\u015flerini ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 biraz ihmal ediyordu. Fate\u2019, bu nedenle i\u015fe, \u015eem\u00e9\u2019den daha iyi yemek yapmak, daha iyi diki\u015f dikmekle ba\u015flad\u0131. Yerle\u015fim bi\u00e7imini de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fin evine yepyeni bir g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm verdi. \u015eeme\u2019 ve \u00e7evresindeki etkili ki\u015filerle iyi diyalog kurdu. K\u0131a s\u00fcrede ablas\u0131 Bes\u00e9\u2019den \u00e7ok daha yetenekli oldu\u011funu kan\u0131tlayarak \u015eem\u00e9\u2019nin yan\u0131nda birinci s\u0131raya oturdu. \u015eeme\u2019, Fate2nin iyi y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u015fleri birer birer kendisine devrediyor, \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fi d\u0131\u015f i\u015flere zaman ay\u0131rabildi\u011fi i\u00e7inde durumdan memnun ve mutlu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n

Fat\u00e9 ayr\u0131ca gelecekte iyi bir anne oldu\u011funu kan\u0131tlayacak. O\u011fullar\u0131 Aziz, Mehmet Ali, Davut Ali ve \u0130brahim\u2019i \u00e7evreye \u00f6rnek te\u015fkil edecek bi\u00e7imde oya gibi i\u015fleyip yeti\u015ftirecek, birer b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fer ve inan\u00e7l\u0131 insanlar olarak topluma kazand\u0131racakt\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u015eem\u00e9\u2019nin olumsuzluklar\u0131n\u0131 teker teker saptayan ve bunlardan ders \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131n\u0131 bilen Fat\u00e9, asl\u0131nda \u00f6yle pek yumu\u015fak da de\u011fildi. Haks\u0131z yere, kapris olsun diye kimseyi azarlamaz, kalbini k\u0131rmazd\u0131. Ama \u015fu veya bu bi\u00e7imde densizlik yapan olursa, hi\u00e7 geciktirmeden f\u00fcnyeyi \u00e7eker, bombay\u0131 patlat\u0131rd\u0131. Onun i\u00e7in Fat\u00e9 Ana ile konu\u015fanlar, sarraf terazisi kullan\u0131r, s\u00f6zlerini dirhem dirhem tart\u0131p s\u00f6ylerlerdi. Yakla\u015f\u0131k yirmi sene izledi\u011fim babaanneme, biz torunlar\u0131 dahil, sesini y\u00fckselterek cevap verene rastlamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Fat\u00e9\u2019 iyi bir e\u015fti. Aile gelene\u011fine uyarak \u201cApo\u201d dedi\u011fi Seydi\u2019nin her zaman en yak\u0131n destek\u00e7isi oldu. Evin i\u015flerini, i\u015f\u00e7i, \u00e7oban ve kom\u015fularla ili\u015fkileri bizzat y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc. Seydi\u2019nin ticari ve dini i\u015flere daha fazla vakit ay\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n

O kat\u0131ks\u0131z bir S\u00f6be\u00e7imen \u00e7ocu\u011fuydu. Her g\u00fcn kimin evinde ne pi\u015firilir, ne yenilir, ne i\u00e7ilir; kim a\u00e7 kim tok bilirdi. K\u00f6y\u00fcn fakirlerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmay\u0131 ibadet sayan bir inanca sahipti. \u00c7ok seneler sonra 1943 y\u0131l\u0131nda ba\u015f g\u00f6steren k\u0131tl\u0131k s\u0131ras\u0131nda, ileri ya\u015f\u0131na ve art\u0131k d\u00fcnyevi i\u015flerden elini ete\u011fini \u00e7ekmi\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, k\u00f6yde a\u00e7l\u0131k \u00e7ekenlerin son \u00e7are olarak yine ona ba\u015fvurduklar\u0131n\u0131 ve hi\u00e7 eli bo\u015f d\u00f6nmediklerini biz torunlar\u0131 \u00e7ok iyi biliriz.<\/p>\n

\u015eem\u00e9, Fat\u00e9\u2019nin i\u015fleri aksatmadan y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e kalanlar\u0131n\u0131 devretmi\u015f, 1910\u2019larda t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyevi i\u015flerden ar\u0131narak odas\u0131na \u00e7ekilmi\u015fti. Art\u0131k her sabah Fat\u00e9 Ana taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6zenle pi\u015firilen k\u00f6p\u00fckl\u00fc kahvesini yudumlayacak, torunlar\u0131 ile ilgilenecek, ziyaretine gelen dostlar\u0131yla ge\u00e7mi\u015f den bahsedip tatl\u0131 tatl\u0131 vakit ge\u00e7irecekti. Fat\u00e9 , \u201cDay\u00e9\u201d dedi\u011fi ya\u015fl\u0131 \u015eem\u00e9\u2019nin hizmetlerini hizmet\u00e7ilere b\u0131rakmayacak, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcne kadar bizzat kendisi y\u00fcr\u00fctecekti.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6be\u00e7imen\u2019de ya\u015fayan herkesin \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve sevincini payla\u015fmay\u0131 bir ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren Fat\u00e9, tart\u0131\u015fmas\u0131z k\u00f6y\u00fcn An\u00e9si (annesi) konumundayd\u0131. Her aile kendisince \u00f6nemli g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc k\u0131z isteme, s\u00f6z kesme, ni\u015fan ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gibi i\u015flerde Fat\u00e9 Ana\u2019ya ba\u015fvurur, yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 isterdi. Fat\u00e9 Ana da konuyla yak\u0131ndan ilgilenir, ancak zoraki evliliklere kar\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu gelin aday\u0131na ger\u00e7ekten bu evlili\u011fe raz\u0131 olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131. Olumsuz bir sonuca ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 taktir de, o i\u015ften vazge\u00e7ilmesi telkininde bulunurdu, maddi ve manevi deste\u011fini kimseye sezdirmeden sessizce \u00e7ekerdi.<\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131 alt\u0131nda bir arada ya\u015famakta olan Davut Ali ile k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015fi \u0130brahim, e\u015flerinin ge\u00e7imsizlikleri y\u00fcz\u00fcnden 1944 y\u0131l\u0131nda ayr\u0131lmak zorunda kald\u0131lar. Fat\u00e9 Ana, b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flu Davut Ali\u2019nin yan\u0131nda kalmay\u0131 tercih etti. Tercih nedenlerinin en \u00f6nemlisi \u015f\u00fcphesiz Davut Ali\u2019nin ilk e\u015fi Zeynep\u2019ten \u00f6ks\u00fcz kalan d\u00f6rt \u00e7ocu\u011funa bizzat bak\u0131p b\u00fcy\u00fctme arzusuydu.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n\u0131 yard\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 insanlara adayan g\u00f6n\u00fcl kad\u0131n\u0131 Fat\u00e9\u2019den zaten ba\u015fka bir davran\u0131\u015f beklenemezdi. O belki bu vesile ile kendisine on d\u00f6rt y\u0131l kusursuz hizmet eden Zeyneb\u2019e g\u00f6n\u00fcl borcunu \u00f6demi\u015f olacakt\u0131.<\/p>\n

Fat\u00e9 Ana, birey say\u0131s\u0131 bir hayli fazla, kalabal\u0131k bir aile olu\u015fturmu\u015ftu. Zaman zaman \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ticaret, torunlar\u0131n\u0131n okul, askerlik ve benzeri nedenlerle ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131 \u00fczerine, \u201c her par\u00e7am bir yerde, Bunlar\u0131 \u015fimdi nas\u0131l toplayaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d Diye ac\u0131 ac\u0131 yak\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Babaannem bu b\u00fcy\u00fck ailesini 1960 Mart\u2019\u0131nda sessiz sedas\u0131z geride b\u0131rakarak \u00fc\u00e7 o\u011flunun sevgi ve sayg\u0131 y\u00fckl\u00fc kollar\u0131 aras\u0131nda Hakk\u2019a y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi K\u00fct\u00fckl\u00fc\u2019de sadece o\u011flu Aziz ile yan yana yatmaktad\u0131r. San\u0131yorum konu\u015facaklar\u0131 daha \u00e7ok \u015feyleri vard\u0131r. Nur i\u00e7inde yats\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Seydi \u00d6zcan, \u015eeman \u2013 S\u00f6be\u00e7imen ve Aziz Baba Alevili\u011fi<\/strong>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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